I'll just leave it at priorities, ( the most important thing in life ).
Priorities tend to be 'subjective' for everyone - and while we are at it I'll mention a couple of mine:
Staying very active and physically fit.
Always maintaining an upbeat and cheerful attitude about everything.
Keeping an open mind about nearly everything, accepting I don't 'know it all' and always willing to listen, and learn something new.
Last but not least - I will never allow the 'old man' to enter my life - while I have to accept 'aging' as a normal consequence I do NOT have to allow a 'curmudgeonly', self - righteous position to dominate my essential 'self' as it seems to with many. Heck I know guys younger than me that are already there.